Understanding is a powerful first step.

The Learn section offers clear, compassionate information about domestic violence and sexual assault—for survivors, loved ones, parents, and community members. Whether you’re trying to make sense of your own experience or support someone else, you’ll find tools, education, and trusted resources here. You don’t need to have all the answers to begin.

Is This Abuse?

Abuse is about power and control—not anger, stress, or love. It can take many forms and may not always leave visible marks. If you’re questioning whether something feels wrong, that matters.

Abuse can include:

If you recognize any of these experiences in your life or someone else’s, support is available—without judgment or pressure.

Understanding Sexual Assault

Sexual assault is any sexual activity that happens without clear, ongoing consent. Consent must be freely given, informed, enthusiastic, and can be withdrawn at any time.

Important things to know:

There is no “right” way to react, feel, or heal. If this has happened to you—recently or years ago—it was not your fault, and help is available.

Supporting Someone You Care About

If someone you love is experiencing abuse or assault, your support matters.

Here are some ways to help:

  • Listen without judgment or pressure
  • Believe them and respect their choices
  • Avoid pushing them to leave or report before they’re ready
  • Offer resources and let them decide next steps

You don’t have to have all the answers. Being present and supportive can make a meaningful difference.

Parents, Caregivers & Educators

Children and teens may experience or witness violence differently than adults. Trauma can show up as changes in behavior, mood, sleep, or school performance.

We offer guidance on:

  • Recognizing warning signs in children and teens
  • How to talk with young people about health relationships, safety and consent
  • Supporting healing at home and at school

If you’re worried about a young person, support is available.

Quizzes & Self-Reflection Tools

Sometimes it helps to reflect privately before reaching out. These confidential tools are designed to help you think through your experiences and next steps.

  • For Yourself: “Is This Happening to Me?”
    Explore common warning signs and patterns of abuse in a supportive, non-judgmental way.
  • For a Friend: “How Can I Help Someone I Care About?”
    Learn how to recognize signs of abuse and offer support without taking control.
  • For a Child or Teen: “Is a Young Person in Danger?”
    Guidance for adults concerned about a child or teen’s safety or well-being.

These tools are not a diagnosis, but they can help you decide if you want to seek support.

Need Help Now?

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911.

For confidential support, call the NEWS Crisis Line:
707-255-6397
For confidential support, call the NEWS Crisis Line:
707-255-6397

You are not alone. Support is here.

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